Mimi was a teenager during the 1950’s, who lived
with her older sister and parents in a middle class community in Forest
Hills, New York. Bob, Mimi’s father, worked as a beauty supply salesman,
and her mother, Irene, was a housewife who also worked for her brother
designing and making children’s clothing. In her community, she was
friends with every store owner and neighbor, and nothing changed.
At school, Mimi found a great talent in acting and dancing, and for eighth
grade she went to a performing arts school in Manhattan. At her new school
the teaching style was very different. Classes had as few as eight
students, and was more of a discussion than a class. However, her
favorite part of the day was lunch, when students would dance on the tables
to swing music played by a band at the school. The following
year, Mimi found the work load to be to stressful, especially with the
long commute, so she returned to a local high school. She and her
friends spent their time after school listening to music together, ice-skating,
or roller-skating. The trends of the time included sweater sets and
felt skirts or ones that were flared or pleated. Although she had
left her acting school, her love of music remained. She remembers
being a teenager and going to the television show, the American Bandstand
(see Music), with her friends. Mimi’s parents
were not strict about the types of music she could listen to because Mimi
didn’t like rock and roll music or Elvis, and found swing music more fun.
She was also close with her family,
and enjoyed the safe feeling of her time, and felt no need to rebel.
I found that Mimi had been very sheltered from the outside world because
when asked about the discussions in her school about current events, she
said that there were none. She needed to be reminded of the countless
air raid drills, and the identification tags that had to be worn everyday
to school, in case a bomb was dropped. What she knew of the Cold
and Korean War was minimal and had been learned by word of mouth.
Even the news programs on television didn’t give full information, they
gave the world what they wanted to hear. She then switched the topic
back to music and her friends. Mimi summed up her adolescence as
being safe, because in the fifties there was a strong sense of community
which she feels is lacking from today’s society. The reason Mimi
probably reflects on the Fifties as a safe and secure time is because most
of it was spent sheltered from reality.